Saturday, January 15, 2011

This Week's Escapades

After we moved in all our stuff on the night of January 7th, I spent the 8th cleaning the apartment, and then had to head out early to Heather's baby shower on the 9th down in Simi Valley. It was a beautiful shower, and baby Gabriella received some wonderful gifts. We can't wait to meet her in February!

On the way to the shower we received a call that my Mom was in the hospital with heart troubles. We left Heather's shower and headed to Olive View to check on her. She is home now, and is doing a little better, thankfully.

The rest of the week was spent slowly unpacking, trying to figure out some window treatments, and visiting with James' Mom who came for a visit to see our new house. She brought Christmas gifts for the kids and birthday gifts for Brad. It was presents, presents, presents everywhere!

We celebrated Bradley's birthday on Friday since his birthday falls on a Sunday this year. We had an outing planned but James and Ben were still not well, so we ended up bringing home burgers from our favorite burger joint and Bradley picked movies for us to watch (The Spiderwick Chronicles and Despicable Me). James actually has the day off on Sunday so he can go to church with Bradley on his birthday. Brad is giving a talk in primary and then he wants to come home and eat Eggs Benedict and strawberry shortcake. I found an awesome raw vegan strawberry shortcake recipe. I'll let you know how it turns out!


The boys got a Star Wars sound book!


Bradley's birthday gift was a table top air hockey game for our game room (aka our garage!).



Emma loves her grandma!

Our new drapes!


The house is coming along...slowly, but surely.

No couch yet...we have a friend who is giving us a love seat until we can save up for the sectional I'm hoping for.

Still working on a dining room table. The small one in the back has a leaf we can put in, but we are missing the chairs...I eventually want James to make a built-in booth and pantry along that back wall. Won't that look nice? :)


It's very weird for James and I to not have everything in order already. We normally move-in and work til we drop. I think with the stress of buying the home and all the work we had to do last week (plus a new baby), we are just tired. We've decided to take it one box at a time and not worry about it. If it takes us 6 months to fully unpack, big deal. Everything is out in the garage, so it isn't taking up extra space. It will get done...eventually!


January 9 - 14, 2011

Emma Leigh Update

Our little girl will be 5 months in just a little over a week! Her personality is really starting to show. She loves to play with her toys, giggles and smiles, yells and squeals, and almost can roll over and sit up on her own! She is extremely strong, both in body and spirit- no surprise there!

She has developed so much in just a few short weeks. She can grasp her toys and has figured out how to blow raspberries which she does a LOT. I think she may be teething already as well because she drooling quite a bit. Can't feel anything in there yet, but they are coming! She recently has taken a great interest in food. When anyone is eating, her eyes are glued on their plate. She'll smack her lips as if to say, "I want some of that!" She is growing like a weed. We can't believe how big she is. It's still kind of sad that our little baby is growing up, but she is becoming very fun to play and interact with. Her siblings still adore her- the novelty hasn't worn off yet!!

My only complaint is that her sleeping at night has gotten even worse since we moved. She was getting up 2 times a night for a couple months and now gets up between 3 and 5 times, sometimes more! As soon as we are settled, I will have to get her back on a schedule. I'm tired!! But, she sure is cute!!









January 2- 14, 2011

Home Sweet Home...Almost!

Well, it has been one big blur since we received our keys on December 30th. We had a LOT of work to do to get this place ready for us to move in. From the 30th until January 7th when we actually moved, we were working non-stop. James had to work 12 hour shifts at the jail the 1st through the 4th, so with the help us some amazing and competent women, we completely painted the house including the walls, baseboards, AND ceilings (apparently our priming job was not as good as first thought!) in three days! We then had more cleaning to do, several more repairs which members of our ward also helped with, locks to change, utilities to hook-up, shopping to do, and then we decided we should probably pack and clean the apartment! Man, it was busy! But, it looks REALLY good AND we are so happy!

Our office/school room


Note to self: When painting, use drop cloths! Savanna and I spent the better part of 2 days cleaning paint and primer off our porcelain tiles! Razor blades worked really good!

James was super impressed with our painting when he came home from work!

No worries- we saved some painting for him. He was the only one tall enough to finish the stairwell!

The end result!



Our kids were troopers! They spent a good portion of the week in their new room playing and watching dvds. Ben was still a little under the weather and there were two nights where they both passed out on their little Batman couches before they even ate dinner!

Emma was pretty tired too with all the chaos around her. Savanna babysat her a lot while I was painting and moving stuff. I left for a few minutes and came back and found her like this on our empty bedroom floor! Oh, moving is tough on everyone!


Just a quick shout out to all my wonderful friends for making this move so successful. We actually had people calling US to ask how they could help, show up unannounced to fix something, had over a dozen people show up for the actual move (not to mention the several families that helped us pack beforehand), and then several families brought us meals, painted, cleaned our apartment, and helped with the boys!! I love you all, and it couldn't have been done without you!!

Cora, Nathan, Diana, Juliann, Crystal, Elder Stone, Elder Hodge, Ariel, Brad, Bibi, Jen, Quin, Cole, Diane, Mike, Neville, Daryl, Harrison, Richard, George, Jake, Jacob, Karaleigh, Cheryl, John, Kelsey, James, Anna, Val, Carolyn, Wayne, Jennifer, Robert, Lisa and Bishop Merrill...THANK YOU!!!

January 3 - 8, 2011

Sunday, January 2, 2011

We finally got the keys to our first home at 5pm on December 30, 2010! We are elated!! And, we have a lot of work to do!! James had only one day before he had to go back to work, so we got busy right away. That first night the boys and Savanna and I cleaned most of the house while James got to work on de-winterizing the pipes. That is when we discovered a bunch of our leaks! We also had a friend come over and help us install our new stove. It looks awesome!

We got up early on the 31st and went back to the house. Some wonderful friends and the missionaries helped us prime the entire place, do a bunch of repairs, and we made a battle plan for the next week before we have to move out of our apartment!

The boys really wanted to help paint. I wasn't too sure, but our friends who were helping us assured us that if we let them paint they would get bored after a little while and then leave us alone. They were right! I think the boys lasted about 20 minutes and then went off and watched movies and played cards for the next 4 hours!

Savanna spackling.

Nathan teaching them how to roll out the paint.







You can see to the right our first bedroom is baby pink. I thought we would tackle that later, but James looked at me in horror and said, "We ain't leaving that pink!" So, we primed that room too!

Here is the primed pink room- looks better already!

My poor Ben had the flu through all of this. It really started to hit him later in the afternoon and he just rested and watched his DVDs. He was a really great sport though.

The primer covered pretty well! We had it tinted to the paint color I chose- Tuscan Beige for the walls with Polar Bear White for the baseboards. :)


The place looks twice as big already! Overall, I think it went well. The priming was a little hurried and sloppy. We are going to start the actual painting tomorrow. I'm hoping it will turn out nicely.

I didn't even realize it was New Year's Eve until about 8pm that night. No, we did not make it until midnight. I think my head hit the pillow at 10pm and I was asleep by 10:01!

Happy New Year, Everyone! It sure is happy here!!

December 31, 2010

Belated Christmas with the Serranos

Heather and Sofi came up for the day to celebrate Christmas and exchange presents. Heath took Savanna out shopping, we showed her our new house, hit the park, and went to dinner. It was a great day! Here is Emma in her new activity play center that Auntie brought. She really likes it- I can't believe how big she is getting!

We got Sofi a bunch of Dora and Boots stuff for Christmas...I think she liked them! She had just gotten here and was still checking us all out.

Here is my happy girl!

The boys' Christmas scooters!

I swear the boy dresses himself!

Peek-a-Boo!


Sofi warmed up quickly and was chasing the boys and Savanna all around. She calls Savanna "Nana" and Bradley "Wadley." My favorite was when she called our Beta fish "Doridy"- meaning Dorothy, which is the name of Elmo's fish for those of you who aren't Elmo's World followers!

Sofi loved the baby and kept saying "Em-ma" and loving all over her!


I think Emma is protesting in this one- a little too much love!




Boys get scooters from Auntie Heather. They've been scooting ever since!

December 28, 2010

The Wyett Family Home Buying Saga

Well, I didn't want to post any of this until the deal was sealed. Now that we have our keys, I will tell you the story of how we came to be home owners. Find a comfy spot to sit and grab a drink (if you drink- we don't, but we seriously thought about it during this ordeal)! I would like to say that our experience is unique and that most people don't encounter as many "bumps" in their road to home ownership. But times are tough, and I have heard from others that buying a home these days, especially a foreclosure, is much more difficult than in years past. I write this mostly for therapeutic release. If you haven't bought a home yet, don't delay on account of our experience. It HAS to go better for you than it did for us! Enough rambling...here we go:

We began searching for homes back in March of 2010. We were trying to get into a home before the baby arrived. We saw many homes from Guadalupe to Paso Robles. There were several we liked and we made three offers. Each offer was outbid by another party, and we succumbed to the idea of waiting until the Fall to begin looking again. Then our realtor called and told us that the other buyer who outbid us in our last offer backed out, and we could basically have this house if we wanted it. It was a small 3 bedroom, 1100 sq ft. house in Paso Robles. It was on a nice size lot though and had potential. For some reason we felt very strongly that we should say no, to the surprise of our realtor and the other agent.

We took a break from house hunting for several months, had our beautiful, little Emma, and then realized quickly that we needed to get out of this crowded apartment! We went to the temple and prayed about where to move, to buy or rent, to wait or look right away. We received very specific guidance, and began looking for houses the very next week. Several listings came up, but they were either not vacant, far away, short sales, or too small....except for one. It looked promising. It was a 3 plus 2 with an attached 2 car garage right here in Nipomo. They were offering a VA Vendee loan to those that qualify with an extremely low interest rate and no pmi. We visited the property immediately, and decided to make an offer. Now, the real story begins...

We were told by the listing agent that he would not even consider our offer if we utilized the USDA loan program we were planning on using. He flat out said that he wouldn't even give our offer to the bank to review if we went that route. He insisted we get prequalified through Bank of America and referred us to local B of A rep named Bonnie Mogan. We already had a loan guy that prequalified us before we started looking, but we were having a hard time getting a hold of him, and frankly he didn't seem to know anything about this type of loan or any loan for that matter. So we called Bonnie to start the process. She didn't seem to know the Vendee loan either and told us that since we weren't vets, she wasn't sure why we were trying to get a VA loan. She was completely uninterested in our business, and never completed our prequalification. Our realtor contacted the listing agent and explained our troubles, and he told us to contact the VA Vendee line at B of A directly.

We contacted William Wilkerson, a Bank of America representative, on approximately November 15, 2010 and he gave us a prequal letter for the above property. He explained this Vendee loan in great detail. It was an incredible loan, and not many people know about it or can qualify for it. It is also available to non-veterans if you fall within the guidelines. We were very excited to qualify and were even more excited to have found someone who actually knew how to do his job, knew about the loan we were trying to get, and cared about doing good work! Thank goodness for William!

However, we had to submit our offer three separate times delaying the process an entire week because the listing agent had no idea how to submit this offer to the asset manager's liking. Apparently since this is a government loan, they are very specific about the format of the offer contract. Instead of finding out exactly what she wanted, the listing agent kept sending it back and forth. When our agent put pressure on him to get it right (we didn't want someone else to swoop in and make an offer better than ours), he had all the paperwork except one page ready to go. Instead of delaying the process again, he decided to forge James and my signatures on that page! My realtor was very upset, but he protested and said, "You wanted it to go faster!" Idiot. She will be filing an ethics complaint against this man shortly. We tried calling William for help with the offer letter, but William had left on vacation. He left us with the name of his co-worker, Travis Mauldin, and said he would help us if we needed it. I called and emailed. My realtor called. The listing agent called. Travis never returned our phone calls or emails. He didn't do jack, but our offer was finally officially accepted on November 24th with an anticipated closing date of December 31st.

We performed our home inspection on November 30th. Nothing major, but we did have some minor plumbing issues and some serious painting to do before we moved in. This home was actually owned by the Secretary of Veterans Affairs back East so they had the house winterized. The inspector had to de-winterize it so he could check the plumbing and the seller insisted we pay to re-winterize after the inspection. Total waste of money- it's Nipomo, the sunniest place in the US!

A week went by and we still hadn't received the paperwork from Bank of America. I called William (he was back- thankfully!) to inquire about our welcome package. He said it should arrive in 5 to 6 business days and that this loan took a little bit of time in the beginning because they had to enter everything in manually, but then it closed very quickly. That was a Wednesday and we were on our way to L.A. to celebrate James' birthday. Figuring that we had some time until the paperwork would arrive, we ended up staying an extra day and arrived home late Friday night. The loan application and Good Faith Estimate that William said wouldn't arrive for 5 or 6 business days were on our porch when we arrived home with a delivery date of December 1st, the Wednesday we left! We looked at it and began filling it out over the weekend, but it was like it was written in another language and all the numbers were off. We were totally confused and hesitant to sign a bunch of papers that had wrong information on it, but it said it needed to be returned by Tuesday.

We contacted William first thing Monday morning, but were informed that he had been moved to another department. I called several times but no one would tell me where William went, and no one seemed to know anything about this loan or my file! We were given the name of Williams' supervisor who we also contacted. We were informed that his supervisor had also been moved to another department. After several calls and several hours of being on hold, we were informed that our file had not yet been re-assigned and we would be contacted by our new loan officer within 2 days. We never received a phone call back from anyone...ever.

We then began contacting the processor that mailed us the paperwork that works in the Department of Veteran Affairs here in California. Apparently it is this department that specifically handles the Vendee loans. Her name is Griselda Ortiz. We began attempting to reach Griselda on that Monday, December 6th. We finally, after calling numerous times, leaving numerous voice mails, and sending emails (all of which she did not return), spoke to Griselda on December 7th after our realtor called and let her have it for not responding to our inquiries. Griselda told us that Good Faith Estimates were always wrong and that we weren't "signing our life away." She also said she could do her job better if she wasn't always being bothered by realtors! She was a peach (James had other words to describe her...many in fact).

At any rate, we over-nighted the paperwork through FedEx and it arrived at her office December 8th before 2pm. We began calling her again to verify that she had received the paperwork on the 9th and to find out if there was any additional information she needed. She did not call or return our numerous messages. In fact, we did not get in touch with Griselda again until December 17th! She informed us that she was only waiting for a verification from James' employer that she had requested on December 13th. We immediately contacted James' HR department and were told that they never received any request from Bank of America. They faxed over the VOE that afternoon. Griselda also informed us that underwriting would take 10 to 12 business days once all of our paperwork was in order. She also let us know that she would be going on vacation and that Angel Braithwaite would be taking over our file. Okay, great. Another person to deal with...they had to better than Griselda though!

We called Angel that day and introduced ourselves and asked her to please go over our file and let us know what else we needed. We were very upset that our file had been sitting on Griselda's desk for over a week collecting dust. Angel actually answered her phone so that was exciting! She told us she would call us back by the end of the day and let us know what our file needed. Surprise- she never called back! So we called her just before the close of business (this is still December 17th). She told us all she needed were W2s for the last 2 years and our Landlord's information (both of which we FedExed to Griselda with the opening package). We faxed over the information any way the following Monday, December 20th.

I began calling Angel December 20th to find out if she received our faxes and once again received no response. Since she was a new employee she did not have an email account or even a voicemail set up. Her phone just rang and rang. I then called her supervisor, Yesenia Sanchez, and left a message with her secretary. I told her secretary how upset I was that I had been repeatedly lied to and tossed around. I asked if Angel was even there and she refused to tell me. She said Yesenia would call me back, but I never heard from Yesenia. This is sounding a bit repetitive, isn't it?

It is now December 21st. At this point, I just resolved myself to the fact that we would not be closing in December. Our papers hadn't even gotten to an underwriter and our realtor told us to call our landlord and see if we could delay our move-out date (we had given notice on December 10th). James was home and still sleeping so I decided to let him handle that when he got up. About an hour later, we received a call from some chick named Silva Momjian. She informed us that Angel Brathwaite was no longer with Bank of America and that she would be taking over our file! She also told us that our file had already been approved by an underwriter except for a few small conditions. What? This was good news, just surprising! We emailed Silva explanations of all the conditions and documentation within the hour. Silva said that she would give the underwriter our additional documentation immediately and have an official approval by the end of the day. She then said we could begin the closing process with our Escrow officer. And Guess what? Silva ACTUALLY CALLED US BACK that same day! She said the file was complete and would be sent to a closer in another department who would be dealing with Escrow.

We then filled out our Escrow papers, and Escrow began the tedious process of getting all the documents to the liking of this original asset manager over at the VA and getting both the seller and lender (who really were the same entity in this transaction) to sign-off on all the numbers. With the Christmas holiday and the specifications of this particular loan, we were told that we would be signing loan docs late Monday night, December 27th (James worked until 7pm, so they said they had a notary service who would come to our home), and recording and closing on December 28th.

Monday rolled around and they still did not have VA approval. Tuesday rolled around, no VA approval. Wednesday, December 29th, at 4pm we get a call from our Escrow officer saying that it is all approved. We just need to sign loan docs and we can get the keys the next day! We were in Santa Maria when she called so we rushed to the bank to get a cashier's check for our portion of fees, dropped by the house, and got to Escrow a little before 5pm. We had docs signed in about 20 minutes and James pointed out that the $125 signing fee for the notary service was still on our papers, and asked them to take it off. They informed us that they couldn't take that fee off without delaying the process until after the new year. She said she would have to redo the paperwork and send it back to the VA for approval and with the holiday coming up we wouldn't close in time. $125 was not enough to mess everything up, but it was the principal of the matter. Escrow had been back and forth with the VA for 3 days making changes and they didn't bother to take off that fee when it was obvious we weren't signing docs late Monday night. We signed the papers, but left feeling like we were robbed. It really was the perfect ending to this whole experience.

We waited on pins and needles all day Thursday. We were told at 2pm that they had received funds and were on their way to record. By 5pm, we were wondering what was taking so long! Our realtor called Escrow and was informed that it had been recorded hours ago! No one from Escrow bothered to call her or us. Our realtor drove straight to us and gave us our keys. I'd like to say the saga ends here, but alas, it does not. We have recently discovered several vital repairs that the home inspector either did not find or the plumber who came to de-winterize created. We started our home ownership with a leaking water heater, two leaks under two different sinks and a wacky sprinkler system that sprays water up through a crack in our drive-way! Our warranty company won't come out until next week because they don't have confirmation of close of Escrow yet. More calls. More headaches.

I know what you're thinking: But your home owners now! And you actually closed a day early! And you got a great deal! Move on, already! I don't mean to sound completely ungrateful. We really are super excited to be home owners. We love our new house and still think, despite the repairs, that it is going to work out great for our family. Our loan is incredibly great, and yes even worth all the hoops we had to jump through. Our payment is not much more than what we were paying for our rent, so that is fun! We also have some wonderful friends who have come over to help paint and fix up the place. And, I can't say enough about our realtor. Daneal, if you are reading this, we love you! Thank you for working so hard for us, for dealing with all these idiots, for being our realtor, friend, psychologist, and advisor! You were the only shining light through this whole process. We are confident, despite all the people who caused us grief, that we will be ready to move in furniture and start making this house a home next week!

For those of you who actually read this whole post- thanks for being a part of my therapy. Really, just writing it out helped me feel better! The whole situation completely stressed me out and now seeing it all in writing, I can let it ago.

Now to post pictures of the new place!!